Self energy

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What is a Self?

• The energy of Self (Self-energy) is a state of mind full of compassion curiosity
and other resources – a state in which we know what is good for our parts.
• Each of us has a Self at the core of their being. Each of us has access to this
state, even individuals who have been very wounded or mentally abused.
• The Self is also considered as one of the parts (an active internal leader for
other parts, as it has a broader perspective than other parts) and a state of
higher consciousness (which appears when the Self “goes to the top, leaving
the other parts in the valley”).
• During traumatic events, the Self becomes dissociated and separated from
experiencing the trauma, as other parts try to protect it at all costs.
• When parts have to resort to more or less extreme strategies to protect the
Self, they lose confidence in the Self and cease to trust in its ability to be the
leader of the whole system. In consequence, an individual no longer feels safe
and stable in his or her state of mind.
• One of the goals of the therapy is to help the client in differentiating the Self,
so that other parts can trust it again.
• When the Self works ineffectively, it is not because it is defective but because
other parts are blocking it.
• The notion of the Self is the greatest contribution of Internal Family Systems
Model to the world of psychotherapy. This idea distinguishes IFS from other
psychotherapeutic methods.
• Entering the energy of Self is a very simple process and often requires just a
few moments, in which the therapist facilitates the differentiation of the parts
affecting us with their emotions.

8C of Self energy

According to Schwartz, the Self exists in every person in the same way and
can be characterized by the same features. Schwartz distinguished eight
qualities that appear most often and called them “8C” (each of these adjectives
begins with the letter “C”).
1. Compassion
2. Curiosity
3. Calmness
4. Clarity
5. Courage
6. Connectedness
7. Confidence
8. Creativity

Self-energy in psychotherapy

• Jung encouraged his clients to interact with their internal images, however,
not necessarily by showing them full compassion. The goal of such work was
to become aware of the unconscious , and then understand, integrate and
assimilate them, without helping out our parts in a direct way.
• According to Jung, the Self is the “divine centre” which wants to ascertain
completeness and manifestation. He called it “God within us” – an
impersonal, transcendent position of wisdom.
• Carl Rogers wrote about the basic universal tendency of the human body to
self-actualize and develop – a motive which can be suppressed but not
destroyed. The therapist’s task is to create an environment, in which the client
can let go of his defence mechanisms, as this is when this tendency can
activate itself.
• Both Jung and Rogers saw this internal motivation as innate, indestructible,
always present but veiled and seeking manifestation. However, Jung assumed
the “God within us” perspective, while Rogers saw this tendency as part of
human biology.
• Among other methods acknowledging the concept of the Self there are:
focusing, psychosynthesis, transpersonal psychology.
• According to the Internal Family System model, accessing one’s Self is much
easier than most spiritual traditions suggest.
• Introducing mindfulness into psychotherapy was revolutionary because
before that most mainstream therapies had assumed that 1) a client definitely
needs the therapist in order to recover, 2) a client must learn to improve or
ignore his or her difficult emotions and beliefs.
• Mindfulness, as well as ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy),
showed significant benefits of accepting your thoughts instead of fighting
them. A client is to supposed to assume a position of a passive observer,
distancing from his or her thoughts and feelings and showing them
acceptance. It is important that you do not try to change your internal
experience. This undermines the validity of the cognitive-behavioural
approach.
• Many Buddhists believe that mindfulness is like a muscle that needs to be
trained regularly. At IFS, there is more emphasis laid on fostering the parts’
ability to trust and relax, rather than on building skills.

About the author

Michael Pasterski
Michael Pasterski

The IFS Poland initiative has been started by Michael Pasterski, social skills coach who runs a popular blog in Poland, of over 1 million readers, on psychology, education and personal development Michalpasterski.pl. You will find his blog in English version on Pasterski.com.

Michael has accomplished the first level of education of the Internal Family Systems Model and as a practitioner of IFS Model runs individual and couples therapy with IFS.

The aim of the IFS Poland initiative is to introduce and popularize the IFS Model in Poland and make it a well-recognisable method of self-therapy and psychotherapy.

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The IFS Polska Project has been started by Michael Pasterski, social skills coach who runs a popular blog, of over 1 million readers, on psychology, education and personal development MichalPasterski.pl.

Michael has accomplished the first level of education of the Internal Family Systems Model and as a practitioner of IFS Model runs individual and couples therapy with IFS.

The aim of the IFS Polska Project is to introduce and popularize the IFS Model in Poland and make it a well-recognisable method of self-therapy and psychotherapy.